Coaching with Pilar

What has brought you here?

You're weighing a transition - a new role, a new company, a new stage of life, and you're not sure where it leads.

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You've made the decision, and what you actually want now is to be happier and more aligned in what's next.

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Burnout that's showing up all too often.

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Or it's simpler than that. You just want to feel fully alive in this stage of your life.

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You already have real capability. And you are not broken.

We start with what brings you to coaching. Working together, we slow down enough to see what's actually driving your patterns, beyond the ones you're already aware of.

Integral Coaching® evokes your excellence and shows you how to notice yourself in real time, increase and balance your capacities, choose differently, and bring more of who you actually are into your life and leadership.

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How We Work Together

My coaching draws on the savvy of 25 years inside executive rooms, a sharp read on what really drives people, and presence that creates space for you to dive deep. I employ a tailored blend of tools based on how your journey unfolds.

A confidential 360. Whether through the Leadership Circle Profile®, interviews with the people who work with you, or a combination of both, you see how you’re actually experienced.

Enneagram personality assessment. A professional assessment that offers insight into your core patterns and motivations, the ones driving friction for you and the people you lead.

Regular sessions.  We meet 1-to-1 in a set cadence. I hold presence with you, challenge you to help you find your developmental edge, and offer clarity and accountability to turn awareness into actionable, lasting change.

Support between sessions. A short call or message when something significant comes up before we’re scheduled to meet again.

The Decade Game®. Picture mapping out the next ten years of your life on one page. We incorporate what you already know is true about yourself, what's grounding you, and where you actually want to end up, at home, at work, and everywhere in between. That's the Decade Game. We build yours together.

Offers and Resources. Practices drawn from Integral Coaching, designed specifically for you and where you are right now. Readings suited to your journey.

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"Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes."
- Carl Jung

What Clients Say

  • "My work with Pilar helped me step back from trying to figure out the “right” answer for what comes next and instead develop a deeper understanding of what matters to me and how I want to engage with my life. I came away with greater awareness of my own patterns, a stronger sense of agency and purpose, and practical ways to bring more intention to the choices I make."

    Tom A, Founder and CEO

  • “I'm forever grateful to Pilar for her incredible wisdom, warmth, and skill as she walked by my side during a very challenging time in my life. Pilar's gift is that she comes to her work with so much humanity. With her help I was able to deepen into a very meaningful inquiry about how best to access the inner and outer resources already available to me, which ultimately led me to a refreshing sense of my inherent worthiness, sensuality, standards, authenticity, purpose, and power. I am still feeling anchored here since our coaching experience!”

    – Marya, Entrepreneur

  • “Pilar is a gem. She helped me see my own “luminescence” - to recognize that it was there even when I couldn’t access it myself. She changed the way I see my life and priorities; as a river, with places to explore, rather than a series of things I need to solve or perfect all at once. I can let things unfold and trust the current. Most meaningfully, she gave me space to simply be human. Our sessions coincided with some of the most difficult moments of my life, but she made space for the grief and the possibilities that exist alongside it. That feeling of being deeply seen, without needing to perform or have it all figured out, is something I will carry with me forever.”

    Director, EY

  • "Working with Pilar helped me see my own potential more clearly and learn how to move through the world with greater confidence and balance. What made the experience so meaningful was how thoughtfully she shaped the coaching around who I am—honoring my strengths and the many facets of my life while guiding me toward the growth I was seeking. I came away ready to step into a new leadership role where I continue to shine my light, now with a renewed sense of grace."

    Senior Manager, Palo Alto Networks